Saturday, April 12, 2014

WORKAHOLISM, A CHOICE OF ADDICTION TO ...

HOW ARE YOU ALL BEING TODAY?!

THIS MONTH OF APRIL 
IS A MONTH PROVIDING THE OPPORTUNITY
TO REALLY LOOK AT OUR OLD WAYS OF LIFE;
FINDING NEW PERSPECTIVES TO LOOK FROM 
TO BE ABLE TO SEE OUR CREATIONS WITH "COLD" EYES;
FINDING THE ROOTS TO WHY WE DESIGN OUR LIVES
THE WAY WE DO WITHOUT FEELING JOYFUL … ??
WHY HAVE WE?? 
 ADAPTED TO AND CONTINUED SO SKILLFULLY
TO CREATE A LIFE,
 THAT WE DON'T HAVE THE COURAGE TO STOP
TO JUST ASK OURSELVES
WHY WE LIVE THE WAY WE DO.

SOME LIVE IN JOY AND PEACE! AND MANYMANY DON'T!!

WHAT STATE OF BEING IS CREATING YOUR LIFE?!

WHAT ARE 
THE DEFINITIONS AND BELIEF SYSTEMS
THAT WE ARE SO ADDICTED TO
THAT PUSH US TO LIVE THE WAY WE DO,
JUDGING AND BLAMING AND CRITICIZING THE OUTSIDE,
SEPARATING OURSELVES FROM THE MASSES ...
FEELING OBLIGATED TO LIVE
ON THE RUNWAY TO DEPLETION
TO JUST FIT IN AND BE VALIDATED.

WHERE DID WE LEAVE OUR TRUE SELF WORTH BEHIND?!

HUMANITY HAS FULLY BOUGHT INTO 
THE ILLUSION OF BEING VALIDATED 
BY TITLES, LABLES AND AMOUNT OF WORK DONE.
BEING PRODUCTIVE AND SHOWING
THIS PRODUCTIVITY IN PHYSICAL RESULTS
GIVES AN SENSE OF VALIDATION AND SELF WORTH,
WHERE THERE IS NONE TO BE FOUND WITHIN.

HOW OFTEN DO WE ASK ANOTHER HUMAN,
OR OURSELVES 
"HOW ARE YOU DOING??" 
INSTEAD OF 
"HOW IS YOUR STATE OF BEING TODAY?"
OR SOMETHING SIMILAR … AND
DO YOU WISH TO HEAR THE ANSWER OR
 GIVE THE ANSWER TRUTHFULLY.
IS ANYONE REALLY INTERESTED IN YOUR RESPONSE …?!

HOW MANY OF YOU OUT THERE ARE BEING
IMPRESSED BY TITLES INSTEAD OF 
THE PERSON, THE BEING, BEHIND THE TITLE??

HOW MANY OF YOU IGNORE
HUMANS WITH NO VISIBLE/AUDIBLE IMPRESSIVE TITLE??

I HAD A FRIEND ONCE, WHO HAD A TEN YEAR OLD SON,
THE SON ASKED HIS "TITLE IMPRESSED" DAD:
"DAD, WHEN YOU HAVE READ ALL THE BOOKS,
BEEN TO ALL THE SCHOOLS AND WORKSHOPS,
AND YOU STILL DON'T GET IT,
WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO??!!"

I'LL NEVER FORGET THAT LITTLE WISE GUY!

WORKAHOLISM IS A SEDUCTIVE AND ACCEPTED
COVERUP FOR THE LACK OF SELF WORTH!!

THE MORE HUMANS WORK THE MORE IMPORTANT WE FEEL!
AND THE BIGGER OUR EGOS GROW.
WE FEEL GOOD AND VALIDATED ANSWERING THE QUESTION:
"HOW ARE YOU DOING?"
WHEN WE ARE BUSY-BUSY,
NOT SO MUCH,
 WHEN WE ARE NOT EXCESSIVELY PRODUCTIVE PHYSICALLY.

BEING ON THE GO, ALL THE TIME WITHOUT STOPPING
WEARS OUT THE PHYSICAL MACHINE, OUR BODIES …

IT IS LIKE DRIVING YOUR CAR WITHOUT
GIVING IT ANY MAINTENANCE.
ONE DAY IT WILL JUST ACT UP AND SAY ENOUGH.
THE PHYSICAL BODY DOES THE SAME!

WHEN WE ARE PILING UP AND PILING UP,
MORE AND MORE WORK …
PAID OR UNPAID;
ON OUR SCHEDULE TO FEEL GOOD ABOUT OURSELVES,
AND TO LOOK GOOD TO THE OUTSIDE
WE ARE CONVINCING OURSELVES THAT
WE ARE DOING THE GOOD, THE RIGHT THING …

WHEN WE DESIGN OUR LIVES THIS WAY
BASED ON SELF SACRIFICING,
WE FOLLOW THE PATRIARCHAL EGO WAY …
EXHAUSTING OURSELVES TO THE CORE
(EASY TO BE CONTROLLED WHEN TIRED)
BEING SCARED OF NOT DOING ENOUGH
(FEAR FILLED PLEASER, EASY TO MANIPULATE)
AND IF WE DON'T DO EXCESSIVE WORKLOADS
(WE DON'T FIT IN, IN A SOCIETY OF WORKAHOLISM)

WHEN YOU FIND YOURSELF STOPPED BY 
"THE FAILING TO CONTINUE BODY", DUE TO EXHAUSTION ...

DO YOU STOP AND LISTEN TO WHY YOU ENDED UP HERE
OR DO YOU GO TO THE DRUG STORE AND NUMB 
THE SYMPTOMS DOWN,
SO YOU CAN CONTINUE TO VALIDATE YOURSELF
AND YOUR LACKING SELF WORTH,
WITH YOUR WORKAHOLISM??

NOT GIVING OURSELVES THE TIME TO EXAMINE 
OUR INNER PROGRAMMING,
THE BELIEF SYSTEMS AND DEFINITIONS,
THAT WE USE TO DESIGN OUR LIVES WITH,
THAT EXHAUST US INSTEAD OF REJUVENATING US,
WILL BRING US DOWN ONTO OUR KNEES EVENTUALLY.
IF NOT SOONER, THEN LATER,
SO WE CAN BLAME IT ON AGE OR SOME SUCH.

ALL THE PROGRAMMING THAT WE HAVE BEEN TRAINED
LIKE SOLDIERS TO FOLLOW
IS POKING US AND CHALLENGING US,
BECAUSE THE FAT LADY HAS SUNG!
THEY HAVE DONE THEIR JOBS AND WISH TO RETIRE!

ALL THE STOLEN BELIEVES AND DEFINITIONS
THAT WE CARRY ON OUR SHOULDERS
ARE BURDENS THAT EXHAUST US.
RETURN WHAT YOU STOLE AND ALLOW
YOU, THE TRUE YOU, TO COME FORTH TO PLAY!

NOBODY COULD TEACH US TO SAY 
"NO THANK YOU!"
IN THE GOOD OLD DAYS/WAYS
BECAUSE NO ONE KNEW HOW TO THEMSELVES,
LIVING BY RULES OF POWER OVER.
THE TIME HAS COME FOR US TO LEARN TO SAY "NO!"

WE NEED TO LEARN AND KNOW HOW TO SAY "NO"
BEFORE WE CAN SAY "YES!"

THE MOTIVATION AND INSPIRATION
BEHIND OUR ANSWERS AND STATEMENTS,
MAKE ALL THE DIFFERENCE.

with Love and Peace in Joy,
Morayah

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