GUILT BACKWARDS!

I over-heard an interesting comment

from a stranger the other week and 

loved the message in it ...

"When we feel guilty, 

there is something good in it for us,

related to our True Path ... 

  Go For It ...!!!"

We have been trained to believe

that we are guilty of wrong doing,

that we egoistic / selfish

 if we follow our own desires and dreams!

Entering our earth experiences

we were given a gift of assistance

through feeling sensations of guilt 

to guide us in knowing "right from wrong" personally,

so we would learn how to

 stay on our own sacred path of experiences and themes.

What happened with these feelings of guilt

was that they ended up being used as  "tools"

for manipulation to make us deplete ourselves 

in self sacrifice and focus on the outside, rather than

follow our own inner passion and dreams.

We learned to obey by comments like

"shame on You ...!"

"You are guilty of ...!"

" You need to be punished ...!"

expressed by self-righteous (scared to be wrong)

and judgmental humans needing to be in control.

Most often we have accepted 

these programs and games of "rights and wrongs" 

created and decided by others,

 as real and self-limiting rules of life.

Victim consciousness trying to survive by pleasing.

As soon as we, 

as young ones chose an experience to learn from, 

to understand cause and effect,

that others did not approve of out of fear,

we were judged and made feel guilty and 

were labelled as wrong doers.

All in good faith, derived

from inherited beliefs and definitions of living in fear.

How can we grow and evolve if don't have experiences

and are allowed to "judge for ourselves"

 what is right or wrong for us,

without other humans getting involved 

with their self-righteousness and 

pretentious self importance?!

This is where we all ended up living backwards ...

Most of us feel guilty 

when we do things for ourselves,

when we dare to follow our own inner guidance,

and thus many of us tend to leave our own desires and

move out from our own hearts and 

instead follow what others want us to do and be,

so all the others get a chance 

"to be happy and feel important."

We turn into working "bank accounts" of energy;

always spending, 

wasting our precious energy to fulfill other people's needs.

The Consequence to this sacrifice is

if something goes wrong, according to the other person's opinion,

 we end up being the guilty ones.

In our efforts to Please and 

Earn to be Loved and Validated

we take away the other person's birth right to learn

through his/her choices!

Plain and simple this teaches us  

"to live! and let live!" 

We don't really know what others need for their growth,

so when we project onto them what we ourselves would like,

we get blamed and made the cause of "the problem unfolding."

When we Love another the way we want to be Loved ...

we tend to forget to

 Love them the way they want to be Loved!

We cannot really Love another before 

We Know How to Love Ourselves.

Don't put demands on others to Love You,

before You know How to Love YourSelf 

without judgement!

Don't Judge other People's Dreams

if You don't allow Yourself to Live Your Own Dreams!

Love and Know Thyself Unconditionally!

then the rest takes care of itself ...

with Love and Peace in harmony,

Morayah