DEFINITIONS OF OUR REALITY ...

When we perceive our reality from a negative perspective,

we need to find out what our definition / belief system is about the situation

 and then detach from it!

What kind of energy that is in the

 works around us 

does not really matter!

If we don't allow it in to affect us!

Every time you find yourself affected by people or a situation,

Find your definition / your belief system around it

and then

 DETACH AND LET IT GO!

Actually it is as simple as that!

We cannot perceive what we don't contain!

So Own your experience first!

 then you can change it till an experience of your preference!

DO YOU LIVE YOUR DREAM OR SOMEONE ELSE'S DREAM?!?

Have You lost touch with Your Dreams?

In our everyday life, still living in the survival mode structure of life, 

many of us abandon our own Dreams 

to fulfill Other People's Dreams,
and survive while doing this.

We place ourselves on the back burner having a self talk, 

a sounding board stating,

 soon I'll live my dream but I need this first,

 maybe when I retire ….

This is a choice of Life for many 

 since this is what lots of people were trained to believe in,
or a way of life we learned from
by watching who and what was validated around us, 

as we were growing up.

We learned to live to be accepted and validated by others!
We learned how to fit in!

People being able to live their Dreams is critical! 

… and I am here to support them!

 This is a critical statement! 

if this is truly what we believe to be True!

and we are truly ecstatic and inspired to help others live their Dream.

If this is what you have dreamed to do and be all of your life,

and this "dream" doesn't come from a need/hunger 

to be included and validated and loved (ego need),

but from a true bliss and excitement,

KEEP DREAMING AND LIVING!

What if …? this sounding board actually is only self talk

 from an inner longing to live a Dream, your Dream,

 but you really don't have the Self Worth to Trust and Believe 

in your ability and birth right 

to live your desired passionate Dream Life.

What if …? 

You instead project your dreams' fulfillment
outside of you onto someone else,

your boss, your partner, your friend, your grown-up kids,
your root family, cooperations etc

and feel a sense of fulfillment watching others
live happily ever after,
excluding you from the equation.

Maybe they mirror an aspect of You,

 that You have not inclusively accepted fully as You.

Your Birth Right to live your Life,
 being utterly happy and fulfilled! 

ARE YOU FOLLOWING YOUR HIGHEST INSPIRATION

IN EVERY GIVEN MOMENT?!

I'm not saying that all people should abruptly quit what they are doing,

and start living their Dream!!

There are belief systems that we still Trust,
believes that are the foundation for our chosen way of live. 

These belief systems need to be heard and understood

and then one by one released and Let Go of
if we wish to change direction peacefully!

If we jump from a cliff and believe that we are going to land hard,

 we will harm ourselves!

If we jump believing that we have wings that will carry us,

we will be alright!

When we fully and completely Trust and Believe,

 that our Dreams will take care of us and support our livelihood,

we can take a leap and dare ourselves.

We can take a leap sooner if we so choose,

but our experience will be a different one,

not wasted, not to be judged, just a different one,

 where we may choose to face depletion on one level or the other
just for the learning experience.

WE ALWAYS TRUST!!

In learning about my Self I found that I had invested
my Trust in Doubting myself and my Dreams
most of my life.

I doubted because

 my Self Worth and my Dreams were challenged growing up
and I made up believes about myself from these challenges!

I wanted different things out of Life than what was "normal"

so (out of ignorance and fear) I was told and convinced

 that what I wanted would never happen, mission impossible!

I moved away and abandoned my desires, my passion, my Dreams,

and developed into such a pleaser and work slave,

 that even I convinced myself that it was my Dream Life.

I chose to live a Life that my past designed for me
(even when I rebelled.) 

I lived a different life than what was the norm (of my childhood),

 but still fully invested and believing that my life

 was a life of sacrifice of myself (!) so others could be happy,
my self made up obligation in life.

I chose the second best way of Life,

 since I was taught to believe

that living my Dream was impossible, a delusion!

I was also taught that rich people are evil and live off of poor people!

Who really truly wants to be abundant

 believing that you will join "the club of evil"…

It created a belief in separation, me and them, 

instead of All of us as ONE, inclusive.

If we did not know within 

the different aspects of polarities of

 rich versus poor, black versus white, happy versus unhappy,

fear versus love, healthy versus sickly ...

we would not be able to recognize One from the Other,

 and thus we would not be able to consciously choose

 a personal preference of Life
to be experienced fully.

Digging in my Inner Swamp Lands for Belief Systems

that denied me the Life of my Dreams 

and being my True Self to the best of my ability,

has been / is an "exciting" ongoing challenge!

I have chosen to dare myself to have extreme experiences of fear

 to learn about all possible and impossible obstacles

 that Believing and Trusting

in lacks and limitations and survival mode

create for us.

What helped me move through these experiences

is this statement:

CIRCUMSTANCES DON'T MATTER,

MY STATE OF BEING MATTERS 

(matter = materialize)

Earth Life as a Life Form, 

experienced and perceived as physical matter,

will always challenge us to growth and unfolding
more of our True Self within All That Is.

We are given a Freedom of Choice
to make it hard and a struggle or / and

to have many exciting adventures
within one Big Boundless Abundant Adventure!

with Love and  Peace, Morayah

Do YOU KNOW YOU or … ??

I wonder how many humans really know them selves?

DO YOU??

Do You know the magnificent Powerful Divine Being that is You?

OR

Do You only know the human You were molded into being
 by other humans' 

 belief systems, opinions, rules and regulations?!

How Happy would You be on a scale from 0 - 10?,

 if You woke up one morning finding yourself being 

totally unstoppable and inspired 

by Your Own Life,

 that You couldn't wait to get out of bed and start 

your day EVERY DAY!!?
NO stress just pure excitement of being alive and well!

WOULD YOU BE ABLE TO LIVE THIS FULLY 

DAY IN AND DAY OUT?

 OR WOULD YOU START SABOTAGING YOUR SUCCESS

JUST TO EXPERIENCE VARIETY?

TO WHAT DEGREE WOULD YOU SABOTAGE YOURSELF

 IF THAT WOULD BE YOUR CHOICE AND WHY?

WOULD YOU TAKE IT TO THE EXTREME OR … ?

To be able to answer You have to be brutally honest with yourself 

to know whether you would be able to stand a Life in abundance or not.

Not One nor the Other is better, it is just a matter of choice not to be judged.

I, myself, am still looking for variety and I believe most humans are …

 the question is just to what degree we need to experience that variety to feel alive.

I have found that the more I know my True Self the more I am at peace 

with both "the Head and the Tail" of the coin of life.

One doesn't scare me more than the other and I don't find myself getting bored

 being in one circumstance versus the other.

I used to get really nervous if I was too happy for a longer period of time,

and I became more and more scared,

 that I was going "to loose" my Happy Circumstance

 and end up in misery again.

GUESS what …

I always lost what I had because all is in motion at all times like the tide,

but what I did not know was that my State of Being created my new circumstance!

To not be taken by surprise I made sure that I created "havoc" one way or the other,

 so I could get back into being "miserable" and back into my comfort zone (lack) again and 

blame the change on some situation outside me to justify my change of scenery.

 THE PARADOX OF THE OLD WAY OF LIFE …

Does not matter if you are Rich or Poor …

Scarcity and Poverty Mindsets 

have their own way of power over all of us,

till we recognize all aspect of the nature of the beast 

and can release and Let Them Go!

Being poor is almost safer because then you know the odds … 

and you will not be taken by surprise by having lost it all one morning.

This is not solely related to Money,

but also relationships or lack thereof, 

or health issues etc

All One and the same abundance versus poverty (lacks)!

Let's say You have the best relationship of your life,

 and you have a lingering hidden lack of Self Worth setting the pace

 for Your Fear of loosing the Love you have found…

What do you do?

Humans that do not know how to enjoy a life in love and abundance 

get scared and start patterns of control, micro managing every detail, 

or we start arguments that are totally pointless,

focusing on what we don't have instead of what we have etc 

We turn the ignition key to the engine of sabotage and loss …

which is an exciting experience for wisdom

 if we choose to see it that way and learn from it …

IN THESE TIMES OF FAST PACE CHANGE,

 DO YOUR BEST TO KNOW ALL THE BAGAGE YOU CARRY AROUND,

 THAT IS NOT YOURS, 

SO THAT YOU CAN LEARN ABOUT THE TRUE YOU 

AND 

BEGIN YOUR NEW WAY OF LIFE

IF YOU SO DESIRE OR NOT ...

MUCH LOVE AND PEACE,

morayah 

  

LIFE AS A BATTERY WITH TWO POLES ...

LIFE … the way I perceive it needs two poles to be alive … like a car battery … without one of the poles, negative or positive, there is no life energy produced. 

When we use both poles and connect them through a cable we ignite a spark to start the engine of our vehicle of choice.

Our Life in physical works the same way, but we need to understand the two poles of negative and positive, to be able to CONSCIOUSLY utilize them fully to ignite a quality way of life.

A Fear based life or a Love based life.

We live in a world of Freedom to choose the life we prefer.

We may feel like it is out of reach for us to choose because we feel powerless, we live a role of self victimization and blame life for what we have or not have.

What if?! we could, no matter what the circumstances look like, make it our choice to feel Free or Imprisoned,

Empowered or Powerless.

Would that make a difference of quality of life?

WHAT IS IT THAT MAKES THAT SEEM SO IMPOSSIBLE?

We are just one choice away from the reality we wish to experience!

Often to be able to realize our dream life, we need to face belief systems (that create our state of being), that stop us from reaching our goals, belief systems that we have inherited and taken from others and made ours to keep. Time to let them go! and find our own. 

We have lived so long by the rules of survival and scarcity and poverty in fear (rich or poor doesn't matter; poor, you have nothing to loose; rich, you're scared of loosing what you have, same imprisonment from fear) that sometimes it feels impossible to even imagine how to be able to change life into a quality life of abundance.

It is like a sticky mouse trap, the more we move around the more we get stuck, haha.

Our Fear believes are the sticky aspects, Love is the oil that sets us Free!

We are so habitually used to living in fear, that we don't even know how to live not being scared, so when we feel love and peace day after day, we might(!) just start creating a fear reality again so we can feel comfortably scared again.

If we choose a Life different from a perception of "predator - pray" and make peace with our inner fears of Powerlessness, we might just begin to trust a way of Life,

 that it is not here to punish and betray us, but here to support us. 

Life always is here to provide us with what we need to grow out and away the old ways, 

it just doesn't feel that way when we feel attacked by life as a predator.

It is just a matter of perception nothing else!

Remember that Life is just a mirror of Our Personal Inner State of Being!

This is why, when one person tells a story in front of ten people and when the story is quoted,  the story has become ten different stories.

THE WAY WE PERCEIVE LIFE IS BORN FROM OUR STATE OF BEING! 

FEAR … is just the result of  BELIEF SYSTEMS, that don't allow Us to be All that We Are.

FEAR … creates more of what we are scared of!

(Universe always supports what we believe in for us to have a full experience! positive / negative without judgement)

Becoming aware of the belief systems behind our fears, the belief systems that makes us scared, terrified, not able to move "forward", etc, makes it possible to change ourselves (/our lives.)

What if You don't know your belief systems??!!!

Well then, USE YOUR IMAGINATION! and create the worst case scenario and make your fears explode in your face, bigger and grander and give you the most devastating experience that you can imagine, so that you can hear the truth about the belief systems that you are holding so dear about you, that are keeping you in the Loops of "less than you can be creations." What belief system do you need to have and to hold about you, to create an experience that makes you terrified over and over …??

Life created and experienced from the Roots of Fear is a creation based on negative belief systems, that we have stolen from others; i.e. definitions and rules of life that we have inherited from our cultures, parents, teachers, patriarchy etc

Time to let go of the burdens of stolen lies!, that we've been dragging around from experience to experience and that are creating our lives to be much lesser than they could be.

Belief systems that do NOT TRUST in our dreams come true, 

but trust solely in a way of life within scarcity and survival mode!

What we are scared of develops our State of Being … Our State of Being creates our lives!! 

To be able to change our Way of Life, that we have been taught and trained to live (many not even knowing that we are the sole powerful creators of our Lives), we have to change the belief systems that run our lives so that we can change the way we perceive Life, individually and collectively. 

I would suggest that we invest All our Stocks in Our Selves! 

That we also open up the Black Box within and track down the lies about ourselves (and their roots) that we hold dear and near to feel safe, then detach and release and Let Go!

 Most of them are holding us back from growing and expanding Spiritually in our Physical Life. 

Let's End our predator - prey believes, so that we can inspire with peace in the shifting 

into a New Way of Life!

A WIN-WIN SITUATION FOR ALL AND EVERYONE!

HOW OFTEN … do you feel that your power is sitting outside you grinning and staring at you from a distance, coming at you through the actions or the words from another human being or circumstance or non human being?!?

HOW … does that make you feel?!?

WHAT belief system about yourself do you need to trust and hold dear to push your Divine Power away from you to leave you "helpless" without it?

Make peace with your Power and invite it back in so that you can feel empowered and be whole again!

Make friends with your fears and stop running away from them and give them space tell you their story!

WHAT IF ... there is no outside! only your inside reflected outside you with the help and words and actions of another human being (or situation) … 

Much Love,
Morayah

GROUNDHOG DAY …

 Groundhog day, experience after experience, "nothing" seems to change in the perceptions of your life (emotionally), relating to your choice of creation ... 

When we keep having the same reoccurring emotional responses/reactions to what we are experiencing making ourselves scared, high, unhappy and out of sink with our true peace and balance within, it is simply a sign that we are not recognizing the belief systems (about ourselves) that make us choose the same life experience over and over. 

FEARS are our best friends telling us about the lies, the bed stories, that we hold on to, that keep us from being our True Selves.

"You were born an original … Don't die a copy!"  - John Mason - 

As long as we agree to live and believe in the same form of life as everybody else, we also agree and accept, that the structures that confined the old ways are the only structures to live by.

We can't build a new house on top of an old dysfunctional, leaking house and trust that it will provide a solid trustworthy foundation!

The old structures based in fear and power over separate us from our True Selves and from trusting and believing in our dreams! 

When we copy beliefs from others and make them ours to live by, we state with our choice that we are too scared of being ourselves. We put on masks that fit the stolen belief systems, so that we can be accepted and go un-noticed; we really don't ask for much.

Lack of Self-Worth!

What belief system, about Your Self, would you have to hold dear and tight to heart to not allow yourself to live your life, to be You and live Your Dreams, and follow your Highest Inspiration in every given moment of the day without expectations of outcome?!?

How often do you follow the mainstream complaining about Life, judging and criticizing people, bosses, politics, religions etc ?? (me and them)

How often does it make you feel better to point finger and exclude yourself from what is too uncomfortable to relate to?? 

How often do you fight or numb down or distract yourself from pains in your heart and body in your efforts to find the cause of your suffering outside of yourself??

Another train of thought ...

What if ... I said that there is no outside!?!!

What if … that blame on the outside is just another way of justifying Self Victimization

 to stay helpless and codependent?!!

What if … all the pain and suffering that You experience is just your heart and body letting you know that you are holding on to a lot of BS lies, 

that are not allowing you to access your True Self within?!!

What if … all the times when you point finger and blame someone else for your reality perception, you are actually just judging yourself, 

mirrored by other humans and all your experiences in life?!!

What if … all that you see, hear, perceive "out there" is just another reflection of yourself that you need to look at and learn from?!!

What if … existence is neutral and there is no right and wrong, good or bad to be judged and sentenced to "punishment" by?!!

What if … the inner persecutor, jury, judge are all (egos) validating you because you are having belief systems that make you feel guilty of being wrong?!!

What if … all the stolen belief systems are actually here to help you! find the Truth about You, the True You, that you have been separated from for so long?!

What if … your unhappiness, your loneliness, your poverty and scarcity mindset, your pain and suffering are your Greatest Teachers! 

to help You find and track down the belief systems,

      that are not yours and but here to help set You Free to be You?!!

Please, don't reject or shame or run away from Your Shadow Self!

Please, don't believe that you will be rejected or punished if you are True to Yourself!

Please, Love All your experiences without judgement!!

They are just experiences here to help you expand, if you let them!!  

Their teachings are easier to perceive if you stay open minded and willing to let go without judgement!

If You believe your belief systems to be true, they will keep creating Groundhog day!

There is no outside!!!

All is reflected from our inside to the "outside" of us, so we can physically take a look at (with the help of all of our senses) what is causing us to hold on to a life imprisoned by belief systems (about ourselves), that are not ours to begin with, and are limiting us from being All That We Are and can become. 

This is My Truth! 

I share it with you as just another possibility to relate to life as we know it in a different way ... Happy or Unhappy.

I share it with you because of how it has changed my way of life profoundly.

I share it with you because of my empowered experience from owning my life, instead of living a borrowed life.

What we own we can change, when needed!

That which we don't claim ownership over we cannot change.

BE THE CHANGE YOU WISH TO SEE IN THE WORLD - Gandhi -

I GUARANTEE IT WILL SET YOU FREE!