INTIMACY - LOVE - RELATIONSHIPS

RELATIONSHIPS 

CHALLENGE

OUR ABILITY

TO RELATE

                                   TO SELF AND ANOTHER (also self reflection)

OUT OF LOVE TO

CREATE INTIMACY

my personal naked understanding of Intimacy:

The ULTIMATE CHALLENGE

 in our world of matter, 

is to ALLOW ourselves

 to Love and be Loved deeper and deeper!

Without allowing Intimacy to develop

in a relationship 

Love is bound to stay just Love without depth,

and eventually create boredom and friction,

where there was so much excitement and joy 

in "the falling in Love phase."

What is INTIMACY?

Intimacy is having the courage 

to be naked and seen and heard in Truth.

So if we don't have the courage to be 

and have that with Self,

we will probably not be successful

in Intimacy with another.

RELATIONSHIPS

give us a sacred opportunity!!

to discover what definitions and lies

we are hiding behind

so we don't have to show up 

and be vulnerable and naked and unguarded,

UNMASKED.

INTIMACY,

is sharing my story and 

listening to another sharing theirs,

and not having the urge to fix the stories shared.

When we give ourselves a space

to share our most intimate stories without (self-)judgement

we are building the foundation for Intimacy.

When we don't feel safe with our naked truth within,

we will probably not feel safe

telling our story to another either.

DEFINITIONS!

We need to be honest and truthful

about the definitions (lies)

we have and hold dear to heart to "protect" us from "dangers"!

These definitions are running our lives,

and not allowing us to realize

Self Love and Intimate Relations.

I am not just talking about romantic ones,

friendships, family etc

 also part of the Intimacy Challenge.

HOW MANY OF YOU STRANGERS OUT THERE IN THE WORLD

HAVE DEFINITIONS YOU LIVE BY DAILY???!

ABOUT 

MEN AND WOMEN,

WOMEN AND WOMEN,

MEN AND MEN,

FRIENDS,

FAMILY,

INDIVIDUALS AND GROUPS,

VULNERABLE AND PROTECTED,

BLACKS AND WHITES AND REDS AND YELLOWS,

RIGHT AND WRONG,

GOOD OR BAD,

PICTURES IN OUR HEADS 

HOW THINGS SHOULD BE AND BE DONE,

ENDLESS RULES HOW 

YOU AND ME AND ALL OTHERS

NEED TO SHOW UP IN OUR DAILY LIFE.

CAN YOU PEOPLE FEEL HOW TIRED AND OUT OF FUEL 

ALL THESE DEFINITIONS MAKE US??! 

WHEN WE, IN FEAR, ALLOW THEM 

TO RUN OUR DAILY SHOW OF LIFE!

WE ARE TIP TOEING ON EGGSHELLS 

AND MASKING US AND OUR WORDS

SO NOBODY WILL SEE US FOR REAL!

LET GO!!! AND SET YOURSELF FREE TO BE YOU!!!!

LET'S FIND OUR OWN TRUTH,

OUR OWN LOVE,

OUR OWN INTIMACY

AND BE THE TRUE SELVES WE ENTERED THIS EARTH TO BE

AND LET GO OF THE COPY, WE HAVE LIVED BY!

IMPOSSIBLE YOU SAY!!???

I-M-POSSIBLE!!!

AND SO ARE YOU!!!

with Love and Peace, Morayah