LIFE IS MEANINGLESS UNTIL ...

LIFE IS NEUTRAL AND 

HAS NO MEANING UNTIL WE GIVE IT MEANING!

WE ARE FREE TO CHOOSE

WHAT WE WANT TO FILL AND COLOR AND PLAY WITH

LIVING THE LIFE WE ARE CHOOSING!

NOBODY IS CHOOSING OUR LIFE FOR US ...

NO MATTER WHERE WE GO, 

WHO WE CHOOSE TO BE WITH, AND

WHAT WE CHOOSE TO DO, 

WHAT WE ARE FEELING AND THINKING,

THERE IS ONLY ONE COMMON NOMINATOR

IN OUR CREATION AT ALL TIMES 

AND 

THAT IS I.

'I AM' IS ALWAYS PRESENT.

I AM THE ONLY ONE PRESENT

IN EVERY CIRCUMSTANCE I CHOOSE  ...

ALL THE OTHER PLAYERS MOVE IN AND OUT

SHIFTING AND CHANGING FACES  AND BODIES ...

MY BELIEFS AND MY DEFINITIONS,

MY FEELINGS AND MY REACTIONS 

ARE  REVEALING TO ME

THE SAME EXPERIENCE UNTIL 

I CHOOSE TO CHANGE AND LET GO(!)

THE WAY I AM USED TO DEFINING MY LIFE!

BE ADVENTUROUS AND CREATIVE!

EVERY HUMAN BEING IS HERE ON EARTH 

TO LEARN

FROM EXPERIENCE ...

THE CIRCUMSTANCES FOR OUR EXPERIENCES 

DON'T MATTER

IT IS WHAT WE EXPERIENCE AND REACT TO

THAT CAN HELP US LEARN ABOUT 

AND KNOW OURSELVES MORE.

WHAT WE BELIEVE WE SEE!

FEELINGS DON'T UNFOLD WITHOUT HELP!

WE HAVE TO BELIEVE SOMETHING TO BE TRUE

TO BE ABLE TO RESPOND WITH A FEELING SENSATION

ABOUT OUR EXTERNAL LIFE AND

OURSELF.

TO BE ABLE TO GROW AND 

EVOLVE WITH SUCCESS 

IT IS GOOD TO LOVE AND 

ACCEPT OURSELVES AND OUR CHOICES AS

MERE DIFFERENT ROADS TO DISCOVER

 MORE FINDINGS ABOUT 

WHO WE ARE,

MOSTLY  THROUGH RECOGNIZING 

WHO WE ARE NOT.

IF YOU HAVE EVER BEEN STOPPED

WANTING TO DO/EXPERIENCE 

SOMETHING EXCITING (TO YOU)

BY A FRIGHTENED FAMILY MEMBER OR FRIEND,

YOU KNOW WHAT THAT FEELS LIKE 

TO COMPROMISE YOURSELF AND AND YOUR DESIRES,

AND INSTEAD

AGREE TO HAVE SOMEBODY ELSE TELL YOU 

WHAT IS "RIGHT" AND "GOOD" FOR YOU AND

THUS TELL YOU WHAT TO DO AND WHAT NOT TO,

WHAT TO LIKE AND WHAT NOT TO,

WHO TO LOVE AND WHO NOT TO LOVE  ...

WE NEED THE EXPERIENCES WE CHOOSE

TO GROW AND EVOLVE SO

PLEASE DON'T JUDGE OR DISMISS THEM AS BAD AND

DEGRADING AND FILLED WITH SHAME AND GUILT

BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT "PERFECT" 

AS VIEWED BY OTHER PEOPLE.

ALL OUR EXPERIENCES ARE NEUTRAL

UNTIL WE COLOR THEM WITH OUR

BELIEFS AND DEFINITIONS 

TO GIVE THEM A "CHARGE" 

THROUGH THE POLARITIES OF RIGHT AND WRONG,

GOOD OR BAD ...

WHEN WE CHOOSE TO BE EXCITED

ABOUT ALL OUR CHALLENGES AND LOOK AT THEM

FROM A DIFFERENT POINT OF VIEW,

CHOOSING TO RELATE TO THEM 

FROM A POSITIVE LEARNING PERSPECTIVE,

THEY TEND TO PASS MUCH FASTER,

 THAN IF WE

DIVE INTO THE "PAIN" THEY ARE MAKING US FEEL

AND DROWN AND GET STUCK IN THE MISERY.

WE COLOR OUR LIFE EXPERIENCES OURSELVES!

WE CHOOSE ALL OUR EXPERIENCES OURSELVES!

SO LOVE THE MEANING 

THAT YOU CHOOSE TO GIVE YOUR LIFE

AND IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT ... LET IT GO !

AND MAKE UP NEW BELIEFS AND DEFINITIONS

ABOUT YOURSELF AND YOUR LIFE

AND YOUR MIRRORS WILL REFLECT 

THESE NEW CHOICES!

THERE IS NO OUTSIDE!

ONLY YOUR INSIDE REFLECTED

IN ALL THAT YOU EXPERIENCE!

FOR INSTANCE ...

IF YOU WANT TO MEET YOUR DREAM SOUL MATE

OR HAVE YOUR DREAM JOB,

YOUR DREAM HOME, DREAM LIFE ....

YOU NEED TO FIND 

THE SAME RESONANCE AS YOUR DREAM AND

ALLOW THE SAME RESONANCE TO UNFOLD FROM WITHIN.

YOU HAVE TO AGREE TO BE YOUR DREAM!

UNIVERSE ALWAYS PROVIDE WHAT WE NEED

TO SEE WHO WE BELIEVE(!) WE ARE,

NOT ALWAYS WHAT WE WANT AT FIRST ...

OUR DREAMS CAN ONLY BE BROUGHT TO US 

WHEN WE AGREE

TO BE THE SAME RESONANCE OF LOVE 

AS OUR DREAM ABOUT I-M-I, 

THAT WE IMAGINE!

WE ARE ALWAYS PROVIDED WHAT WE NEED 

IN ABUNDANCE!

with Love and Peace in Perfect Harmony,

Morayah

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DRIVING FOR THE FIRST TIME ....

I REMEMBER 

driving for the first time by my self

after I got my driver's license ...

Do You??

I felt like I was in a frenzy of a flash flood 

of experiences,

all able to take me to hell and back ...

It was scary...

clutch, finding the gears, 

paying attention to all the traffic signs,

finding which streets to turn and what lane to be in,

turn lights, breaks, rear view mirrors, 

other people's cars and ways, speed limits and

my own speed, ice, snow, rain, sun ... 

all providing different circumstances 

in how to drive responsibly ...

Trusting my own intuition was all I had!

How fast we move in unknown terrains 

needs to be related to the circumstances, our intuition,

and our own skills from what we know from experience.

It was Overwhelming to say the least,

especially since I chose to get my drivers license 

on the other side of 30,

 so I had more of a sense (than a younger person)

what could/might go wrong and 

how fast my experience could shift and change

if I didn't pay attention to all the different aspects

in traffic including 

other driver's possible lacks of skills and attention span.

When we upgrade our knowledge and understanding

of a new skill in how we want to live life,

many of us might believe we know it all

and that the driving will be easy ...

Being behind the staring wheel in charge of the driving

is a learning process(!) before it becomes automatic.

We can read all the books handed to us

but without choosing to fully experience life first hand,

through trial and error,

we won't really know anything

about cause and effect,

choosing one side before the other.

Being overprotective and controlling of children 

is robbing them of their needed life experiences.

A parent has accepted a responsibility and

 a privilege to lovingly oversee

a child's curiosity and adventures to explore life,

not to control every move they choose;

 rather redirect or stand close by their side as needed 

in their life exploration ...

Showing the young one that we trust

their learning experiences to understand more

about the options of 

their healthy successful choices 

versus the polar opposite ones available, 

helps them develop a strong inner intuition 

to know the consequences of positive/ negative choices.

We cannot make healthy choices

 if we don't know both sides of the fence ...

Small children small challenges,

big children big challenges!

Humans who have grown up being told

what to do, how to do, what to like, what is wrong,

what is right, who to be, what to look like ... to fit in ...

are lost in life and are profoundly disconnected 

from their own intuitive gut feelings of 

what is right or wrong for them.

We all have different paths to walk so we all have

different choices that we need to make to take us forward

on our own choice of life path.

Most humans tend to still live 

by rules and beliefs and definitions,

that we were taught and trained to trust and rely on 

for survival.

We hang onto them like cliff hangers in fear of dying.

When we don't know how to trust our own inner self

we rely on the outside to tell us what to do and be ...

we listen and obey by the rules we have been/are given

rather than seek and find our own.

We live disconnected from our own truth and our own bodies,

that are our only source of true guidance to 

a healthy life style and to succeed in living our dreams.

The rules and beliefs we have inherited and stolen 

from beings in our past have taught us to turn our backs

away from our True Inner Self guidance.

When babies are born,

most are rewarded for making their parents 

proud and happy, and

 reprimanded if the baby is making them feel shame and guilt.

As new borns we are emotionally One 

with our mothers for 18 months,

we feel what they feel, we know what they think ...

When babies don't behave and grow as "they should"

parents feel fear, feel guilt, feel shame etc etc

Babies, toddlers, children

scan everything, this is how we learn to 

behave and please and ask the outside for guidance,

to make the outside smile back at us.

We want our parents to be happy and proud of us ... 

This doesn't make us happy as we grow and mature.

We keep doing it out of fear for not fitting in, not surviving ...

while we at the same time are deeply unhappy and lonely inside.

It may feel like we have a black hole within 

and we may feel like we are lost in the darkness of it.

We keep looking outside for help and assistance to 

fill this empty dark space like we were trained to do,

and blaming the outside for our failing efforts ...

The only way to illuminate this dark tunnel inside

is to go within!

The emptiness cannot be fulfilled from the outside,

if you choose to pull from outside

 you will fill the space with a stranger,

someone who will most likely leave the space when he/she wants to;

 Only You can fill You with You!

We need to seek and find and 

decipher the beliefs and definitions

that make our perception of life so filled 

with fear and loneliness and lack of Joy.

What are the beliefs that we believe to be true

that are driving our car and

that are convincing us to make the same choices

over and over and over again

expecting new different fulfilling results ...

Choosing Groundhog-day for ever.

Learning to live Life in a New Way is a Process!

Not a hard and difficult process, 

just a process!

We can choose between struggling and effortless life styles,

which one are you attracted to??

which one do you choose??!!

When We find the beliefs and definitions

 that do not serve our highest dreams any more,

our True Process is to make new and different choices

to be able to change the outcome of our life.

Choose to be unconditional in Loving You and 

Your Life will shift direction!

Nobody but You can experience that process for You. 

Practice makes good, 

through learning by doing! 

Use other people for inspiration 

rather than to have them tell you what to do ...

we have all done that and we all know how that doesn't work.

You can only do You!

everybody else is taken!

with Love and Peace in Perfect Harmony,

Morayah